The lowest first number SHOULD deliver better mileage as your rpm's are lower at a given speed, in high gear on the transmission. Typically, a higher first number is used for heavy duty and towing. If you want to come anywhere close to the EPA estimated mileage, you will need the 3.08:1 gear. If you are not planning n towing often or much weight, it will be fine
I have 3.08:1 gear and tow a light weight aluminuj bass boat (bass tracker) weighing about 1600 lbs total, and I don't even know it's there.